Podcast Episode 352: 5 Parenting Hacks to End Power Struggles with Strong-Willed Kids with Kirk Martin
Ever feel like you’re stuck in a never-ending battle with your child? You ask them to put on their shoes, and suddenly, it’s World War III. You set a boundary, and they push back even harder. If you have a strong-willed kid, you know exactly what I’m talking about—traditional discipline just doesn’t work, and every day can feel like a struggle to get even the simplest things done. So how do you break the cycle and bring more peace into your home?
That’s exactly what we’re tackling in this episode with Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the top-ranking Calm Parenting Podcast. Kirk has helped thousands of families stop power struggles in their tracks by shifting the way parents approach discipline. Instead of relying on consequences and control (which strong-willed kids love to resist), he shares a game-changing way to handle tough moments—without yelling, threats, or bribes.
Inside this episode, we’re revealing 5 must-know parenting hacks to stop the battles and build a stronger relationship with your child. You’ll learn why traditional discipline backfires on strong-willed kids, how to stay calm when they push every button, and what to do when your parenting partner isn’t on board with a new approach. Plus, Kirk shares a surprising trick that instantly changes the dynamic when your child is acting out—and trust me, you don’t want to miss it.
If you’re tired of feeling exhausted, frustrated, and unheard, this episode is for you. Don’t spend another day stuck in the same old power struggles—hit play now and start making real changes that work.
In this episode of the No Guilt Mom podcast you’ll learn:
- Why strong-willed kids resist traditional discipline—and what actually works instead.
- How to calm yourself and your child during heated moments.
- The best way to start the “parenting change” conversation with a resistant partner.
- Why force and punishment don’t work on kids who crave independence.
- How shifting your approach can strengthen your relationship with both your child and your partner.
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