Podcast Episode 303: Grab the Stupid Cup, Dad! Why Assumptions Keep Moms from Catching a Break
Picture this: a mom, mid-marathon, probably sweaty and exhausted, is asked to pick up a cup for her kid. A harmless moment, right? Except, this one went viral. And why? Because it touches on something so many of us moms feel – the weight of those typical assumptions. Mom is always the go-to, the “fixer” in the family, even when we’re already juggling a million things (like running a race!).
The truth is, the viral cup incident isn’t just about one mom and her parenting; it’s about assumptions and biases. But the blame doesn’t stop there…society has been conditioned to make us think that moms are the ultimate multitaskers, always available to solve every little issue.
But Dads? Well, they get a pass.
We need to challenge these assumptions and start asking questions like, “Why do we expect moms to always be ‘on’?” or “Why can’t the dad grab the stupid cup?”
There’s an unspoken rule in many families: if something goes wrong, mom will handle it.
Kid needs a snack? Mom.
Can’t find their favorite toy? Mom.
Cup fell on the ground in the middle of a marathon? Guess who… yep, Mom.
But here’s the thing – we moms have more control than we think over how our kids (and spouses) react and behave. Hard to believe, I know!
But by turning moments like these into teachable ones, we can help our kids develop the social skills they need to make better choices (maybe even picking up their own darn cups).
It’s about giving them the tools to solve problems without us swooping in like superheroes. Because honestly, we need a break from the cape.
In this episode of the No Guilt Mom podcast you’ll learn:
- How to teach kids social skills and guide them in making appropriate choices.
- You have control over how your child reacts and can use teachable moments to correct behavior.
- Assumptions and biases can influence how we interpret situations, and how to be aware of them.
- Having open conversations with partners and children can lead to better understanding and support within the family.
- Mothers should not be expected to be martyrs and should prioritize their own well-being.
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